Your AI Matchmaker
Swiping’s a slot machine.
We’re designing a better way to date.
No more lies, catfishing, or ghosting. Ember gives you matches based on compatibility with verified profiles and guidance for the moments that matter.
It’s dating designed for honesty, intention, and real connection.
More substance.
Less Bullsh*t.
Real Depth
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You’ll cover values, life goals, ideal partners, and how you naturally communicate and connect. This helps Ember build a rich, personalized profile beyond surface-level preferences.
As you match and interact, Ember learns from your feedback, asks follow-up questions, and refines its understanding to deliver more aligned matches over time.
Real People
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Snap as many photos as you’d like—but at least one must be taken live through the Ember app.
To promote honesty and real connection, Ember offers optional additional verifications—from height to more sensitive details—so there’s more trust and less guesswork before you even say hello.
Real Talk
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Ember introduces you to handpicked matches complete with a personalized compatibility breakdown. If you’re interested, your first conversation happens over video—right on the platform.
Afterward, you choose whether to continue or let Ember gracefully handle the pass. With every match, every pass, and a bit of feedback, Ember gets smarter for you.
You're in charge.
Set your standards high. Ember gives you more parameters to filter out the noise.
Coaching for every stage of connection.
Ember is there to help at every moment along your dating to relationship journey — from flirting to foreplay.
Studies show AI can exceed human coaching in helping people reach their goals.
-Oxford Brookes University, 2023
-International Journal of Evidence Based Coaching and Mentoring, 2025
Grounded in behavioral science, guided by experts.
Ember’s AI is fueled by the latest research in psychology, attachment theory, and human connection, so every match and insight is designed to help guide you toward deeper intimacy, emotional growth, and meaningful partnership.
